Aug 8, 2006

So..

so whats up. how's it going. tell me. nothing much. you tell me. so what else is up (notice the 'else'). The most probable reply being 'the fan, the ceiling, the sky..duh!!)
If you happen to be a tamilian, add on apram, vera enna, sollu. These happen to be the most common phrases/words in our conversations these days. At the end of the conversation,(which probably is an hour or half of nothingness) you think you know more about the person. You really don't. Makes me think if there really isn't much to talk about or have i just become plain boring??? What i need is a class on 'how to keep your conversations interactive' or something like 'a 1000 ways to make your conversations more creative and useful!'
I love keeping in touch. i love calling up friends and blahing. But what happens if you turn into this old/boring person that you never imagined you'd ever be.

10 comments:

Nandan said...

I love keeping in touch. i love calling up friends and blahing

Yeah right!!!!

Arch thinks said...

yea yea i know i'm lazy.. I don't always end up doing stuff that i love..so .

Suchintya said...

as the comment above says we are being politically correct to each other. the question is: since both parties know this, why do they bother? its not as if your pretensions are having an effect on the person you are trying to communicate to. also do we really know anybody at all in our lifetime?? I have strong doubts!

Arch thinks said...

but the fact remains, whether it makes a difference or not, we do go on to ask the usual and definitely do expect the same. unfortunately these things are hard coded into our minds and we are being rude if we aren't politically correct.so life goes on ..what say huh?

The Butterfly Collector said...

now why does that sound so familiar to me???

Arch thinks said...

@manasa:its a part of life for many of us, you probably shouldn't be feeling that so early in life babe!

Anonymous said...

@arch: well ur not a granny either.. you shudnt be feelin that so early in ur life also..

Arch thinks said...

c2... i WAS talking on relative terms, but somehow that, coming from u makes me feel nice!

Hari said...

Hey..true...approm..sollu..vera ennae..this take up avatarts as prefix n suffix to conv..:)...but still its ok..probably this is the way ppl keep in touch ..whn life is not of any hppnings..:)...hmmm..(nt sure hw mch patti feelin creeped into u...whn u put down the last lines..)didnt seem so frm ur orkut profile..frm where i caught up ur blog...so wht else??anythin new hppnin..??approm vera ennae..sollu..:)...jk...hv a gr8 time..
-Hari

The Practical Idealist said...

For a moment, I thought I was reading my thoughts, but then, I'm not sure I would've had the courage to pen down (okay, type down) those thoughts - too many people who know it's me who blogs may read them; if there's one thing I don't like, it's offending my friends...